LOVE - Inspiring thoughts of JK

Is love the product of thought? Is love in the field of time? Is love pleasure? Is love comething that can be cultivated, practised or put together by thought? In inquiring into this one has to go into the question: Is love pleasure - Sexual or any kind of pleasure?

Our mind is pursuing pleasure all the time: yesterday I had a good meal, the pleasure of that meal is recorded and I want more, a better meal or the same kind of meal tomorrow. I have taken great delight in the sunset or looking at the moon through the leaves. That beauty gives great delight and that is great pleasure. The mind records it and wants it repeated. Thought thinks about sex, thinks, chews over it, wants it repeated; and that you call love. Right? Don't be shy when we talk about sex, that's part of your life. You have made it hideous because you have denied every kind of freedom except that one freedom.

So is love pleasure? Is Love put together by thought, as pleasure is put together by thought? Is love envy? Can anyone love who is envious, who is greedy, ambitious, violent, conforming, obeying totally in disorder? So what is Love? It is not any of these things, obviously. It is not pleasure. Please understand the importance of pleasure. Pleasure is sustained by thought; therefore thought is not love. Thought cannot cultivate love. It can and does cultivate the pursuit of pleasure, as it does fear, but thought cannot create love, or put it together. See the Truth. See it and you will put away your ambition, your greed, altogether. So through negation you come to the most extraordinary thing called love, which is the most positive.

Disorder in relationship means there is no love, and that disorder exists when there is conformity. So a mind that conforms to a pattern of pleasure, or what it thinks is love, can never know what love is. A mind that has understood that whole ripening of disorder comes to an order which is VIRTUE, therefore which is love.

J.Krishnamurti
www.jkrishnamurti.org

Sound Mind in a Sound Body.............

"Sound mind in a sound body in a sound environment" definition of health from WHO. First comes sound mind. but I'm afraid I can find people who can count with mental wellness. Doctors prescribe medicines and treatments to heal the body. But what and who can heal the mind. Being one of the person who was wounded seriously in mind, I have not yet come across a single individual who recognized my mental troubles.

My Bi-Polarity was the cause of troubles in my animation development studio. Still that is common for most creators I think so. But when that lead into too much of depression caused by the betrayals without the true understanding of a person called "ME", all single individuals I encountered in my life failed me. A man with physical wound is recognized with it. A handicapped person, anything we can name it. But what about some serious injuries in the mind. Mind is so soft in nature, it unknowingly records everything from the lame nurse we are handed over to in our birth to persons and happenings until this moment. The outcomes can be positive and negative both. This is what psychology taught me. Nobody understood exactly what I am. A child can cry for it longing, but how a man could. I wanted to succeed in life. But I failed. I agree, I'm the reason for my failure knowingly or unknowingly. I agree, but my question is how many around me tried to recognize me as I am or as I was truly?

Still no single human mind.....

Life Partnership - Bone of Bones, Flesh of Flesh

There was a discussion going on with my friends on the current chaotic world especially in the world of man and woman relationships. One of them asked me, “What exactly do you think as the reason of the increased number of illicit relationships, divorces and all”?

It is an easier question to answer this is the problem of the society, that, this and the change of culture anything. But I had a deep thinking. “Okay, what is the reason?” I put on the question to my mind itself. In these increased number of divorces and relationship breakups, only few are genuine cases. Please no question of what is here genuine. If a person cannot tolerate, the physical and mental torture of his/her partner, say abusive behavior, physical stunts, unfaithfulness in anything, especially in sexual intimacy, that happens in due relationship without proper understanding, few cases among this becomes genuine. Absolutely intolerable; I name only few.

But if there is a ratio 45 out 100 cases are filed for breakup then it means, people are so discontented with the relationships they have now. They get into relationship without knowing the true nature of Love and relationship. The mass media today imposes lots of different kinds of relationships including homo sexualities, all kinds of erotica etc..,

Don't Cry for those who don't value your tears.....

You are an open book. Many have to read you. I know you always attempted to sow your seeds wherever you go. But when it is in a healthy soil, it grew up. When it is among the rocks, how can you expect the growth. Leave those rocks. Don't cry for those who don't value you at all and ignored your words.

My long time friend visited me recently. A meeting of an example that cosmic laws and cosmic connections will never fail. I know him for the past 14 years. My college mate. When I stayed in hostel during my college days we use to talk a lot about the life and how we have to live, how ambitious it has to be, what kind of service we have to do for the humanity etc., We talked for hours, planning and channelizing lot of things. We discussed about the universal laws. He is now a Managing Director of a reputed group of companies in south Tamil Nadu region. When I was about to fail in my business, fall in my third attempt he was my only target to get the investment. Even he accepted, there were these board members who rejected the plea at that time, because of the pranks played upon by my lovable team members and students. The whole story is in this blog itself.

This friend now arrived with a proposal, after seeing all my agony, pain and tears, he visited my home recently, asking me to join the board of that company itself to work out whatever I wished to do. I am happy that he traveled all along to take me to give a life when I am broken and also saying "Do whatever you wished to do in this world", because he knows me very well. He was with me right from the first step I took for my ambitions. Along with him there were few board directors who also visited my house to take me into their company.

I hesitated a lot because of my illness, pain and unstable physical conditions. The people who accompanied him at one point of time said a word "Sir, our MD has said about you, your thoughts, your knowledge of cosmology and importance of cosmic laws, which is the base foundation of our company. We know it is you who played a big role in tailoring him. Now he is managing our company well with a monthly turnover of Rs.50 to 60 lakhs minimum. There will be major discussions in our company on what you spoken itself. Now we want to hear from you directly. Your thoughts and actions are necessary for the well being of many people".

I was so happy that a seed I sown earlier have grown up a big tree now with sweet fruits. Still I hesitated saying, "It is because him, he learn't, he grasped whatever I said, He inquired into himself, he sought the necessity of the truth. I am a just a trump card. I actually sleeping here in this room, for