Society's Shameless Teachings

 “Man is by nature a social animal; an individual who is unsocial naturally and not accidentally is either beneath our notice or more than human. Society is something that precedes the individual. Anyone who either cannot lead the common life or is so self-sufficient as not to need to, and therefore does not partake of society, is either a beast or a god. ” 
                                                                                                                     ― Aristotle, Politics

There is no wonder in this saying. We human who just pretend to be mature are not mature enough actually. We take up and learn from things what happen in the society. Often our fingers point out the mistakes of what others are doing to justify our own mistakes. Apart from talking long philosophies, if we try to implement them in our day to day life we will ashamed as if we are nude in front of thousand others. But that too is not considered shame on these days. Reason, the saying above. But after all that application is only stressed by almost all religous dogmas of the world.

Development of technologies paves path for new kind of anomalies in human behaviour. When such anomalies increases in numbers and in more human minds, it becomes part of society's virtue. We name it as development of new generation. Human adapt to anomalies more than their self factor of life without conflicts. Plainly talking, there are increased number of immoral, un-ethical activities nowadays. When question arises as said above the fingers easily point out the society. "Everybody is like that, So am I", "There is nothing called wrong in this current society. We cannot live as per philosophies or religions", "I am so social or friendly that no one would regret my presence among them. I am so happy with it", an individual's statement would go on.

Media, Peer Pressure, living environment are collectively called society nowadays as each individual is affected by the pressures of atleast any one of this. When he cannot live or accomodate himself with this so called society he becomes outdated, unfit for the same. The beauty in what Aristotle said or which have to be understand is this, whose who cannot accomodate to the environment  or the society will be mainly for two reasons either he is too low in level to understand the current society or too high to leave the irrelevant society. That is what he means when saying "either beast or god"

Lets take the current scenario of the society and I leave the rest to those who read this to adapt to society or not.

We born in this world to live and not just to live, but to live with happiness. Happiness and Joy is what everybody seeks throughout in life. When a conflict in this arises it leads to sorrow. Okay enough philosophies. I will tell in plain language. If a near or dear one does something which our mind wont accept then that is a conflict. If that happens not of a single individual but of a group or community then it is a social problem.

I am talking about the erroneous thinking. Today society, the so called friends circle, the so called peer members, the so called family, the so called educational institutions have this behaviour. A thought process on which individuals are induced with false aspects of life. The aspects which creates constant conflicts forever in life. What society teaches will lead to frequent loss of happiness and leads to constant sorrow. The same peer or friends group which enjoyed joy or happiness with you disappears when you suffer from sorrow. This starts from us, because we are an extension of the society.

We learn irrelevant things from the society losing all our precious time and energy. I call the things irrelevant because it causes conflicts in individual life. Every individual's well being is in turn a community's well being. A society's mistake in turn is because of the individuals mistake in it.

I recently underwent some posts in Yahoo, one of the famous website which people of the world surfs almost everyday, every moment. What caused trouble are certain posts which redirects individuals to path of self destruction. I place them here

Whatever this world or these poster have an excuse for posting such things. It goes on air, where many innocent learn from this society's actions like this and after tend to justify them. This nowadays happen in each and every family, regardless of whether or what it is. There is more in this social website like this. And there is an open door always to something more in online like this. More online sites, more activities. Without bothering much about anything, only money and honey in their mind. Just like that feeded into minds. Once there were only paper magazines whose access is only for those who buy it. But no access restrictions.

This behaviour can be confirmed affirmative from the increasing number of divorces, broken relationships, care free attitude of individuals, just like that living, increase of assaults of any charge, increase of individual violence etc., more will add up to the stack. Despite of the genuine cases of true broken relationships, the intimate relationship woes continue with the mis understanding of such things. When I talk about this I am banned. I can be banned. But until conflicts exists one cannot deny the truth that once there will be a light put on to such issues, when it starts arising with own individual family members. But yet individuals as a society will try to find its own reason to justify and abscond from the sequences. 

So my question is "Human is a social animal" does that mean he ought to do whatever animals do on road. It is upto the individuals whether to adapt to the society or to search for the real Peace, Prosperity, Happiness and Harmony.