It was some rainy day in Kochi, lunch time at our college. I
was having my Lunch with one of my student. We used to talk a lot during these
lunch intervals. In one point of such talk he stressed a word “Sir, how you
maintain to be more positive always, we are gaining strength from you”, I just
smiled and said “ignorable dark sides will be there for everything and we can
ignore it so that we concentrate more on lighter sides which will keep us
healthy always. That is the secret of optimism”.
Days changed another rainy day in Chennai, my student turned
team member in my office commented “Sir there is always some negative energy
over here and we were not able to do anything properly,” I smiled then and
said, “When you cannot accept the challenging burdens of reality you will feel
the negative. That is impacting your workspace”.
Analyzing Scene No.1
I used to push my students always by saying positive things
and how they have to achieve in this world. They don’t have any barriers
neither do I.
Analyzing Scene No. 2
I used to push my student turned team members by saying
positive things and how they have to achieve in this world plus feeding them
with reality of life. I indicated them the direction of Morals. That time they had the barriers like settling their
career and I had the financial barriers.
Realities of life often change the same scenario into a
different one. When I realized the potential of youngsters as a tremendous
power I always liked them and wanted them to be the changing power of the World . I always used to think of them as an exploding
power which can be used to achieve greater heights.
But when I really understood that tremendous power is misused
for unnecessary things immorally then I wanted to feed them with real scenes of
life which in turn created an impact that I am negative. Youngsters always don’t
like advices. They must be let in their own ways. Is that what we want? No it
is actually a positive power used for destructive purpose. This is why
youngsters are used more in Terrorism. More than terrorism another cancer
attacks a youngster that is the improper sexual interest. The activities of lust. When I understood this I
always wanted to divert them into real moral aspects.
If one or two among ten does something wrong then we can say
that is an ignorable dark side. But if more than 50% does wrong is it really an
ignorable dark side. This is what the step I have taken. I wanted at least ten
to be correct in their aspects. But I failed. They failed me actually. Still
their power stands more. But how come if I indicate what is wrong in their
side, then I am a pessimist?
Once again quoting “Only Ignorable Dark sides can be ignored to be positive, but a cancer cannot be ignored in the same way and say we are optimistic”
